We have all heard the negative headlines in relation to social media and children however as with most stories there are two sides to the coin, and as much as there are negative implications there are also positive ones. I therefore thought it was appropriate to share my views on the benefits which our children may find in social media.
We have all read about how social media, and related screen time, impact on the sleep patterns of children, how it may result in greater occurrences of mental health issues, that it reduces students ability to concentrate and that it may reduce achievement levels but what about the other side of things.
We live in a more stressful world than ever before. When I did my standard grades and the odd O-level I wanted to achieve the best results possible but looking back I don’t feel there was any significant pressure. I don’t remember discussions of leagues tables or comparisons of countries against other countries or even wide scale coverage of the headline results or subject by subject analysis. These are all common theses days. Our children are constantly having the narrative reinforced, that exams will shape their future and that they are therefore of massive importance. This adds stress but where can students go to share their feelings of stress, to vent, to express and to get support and advice? They could go to their parents, teachers or other adults but our children often find this difficult due to concerns about being judged or about the resulting impact of sharing. Sharing with a teacher may result in being “put” in extra lessons or being seen to be “less able” whereas sharing with parents may result in having some of their liberties taken away in order to help them “focus” or “put in more effort”. They must also consider that adults views on things will be based on their experiences which happened some years in the past and therefore do not fully have a bearing on the current world context and on the environment that the students find themselves in. Social media provides a better option as students can share with their peers and get advice and support from people going through the same situation, in the same, current, context. A quick look at social media heading up to A-Level and GCSE results day showed plenty of examples of students expressing their stress and worry over the impending results envelope, and/or text message. This shows a concerning trend but may also have positive implications in that the students can use social media to vent their concerns and frustrations. Social media also has plenty examples of students sharing words of support, comfort and advice with one another.
We now live in a world where students movements are more closely controlled and monitored. Gone are the days of the lone instruction being to be “back before the street lights come on”. Now parents seek to know where children are. Parents may also ban students from some locales on the basis of perceived risk. You also have shops banning groups of youths loitering and in some cases even installing devices to make such loitering painful. There are less opportunities for our children to be social with each other. Once again social media steps in. Social media spans the gap allowing children to be social, to discuss and share their thoughts and feelings, even when the adults in their life and society in general is continuing to further curtail the opportunities they have for being social, for fulfilling a basic human instinct which I suspect is all the stronger in a youths teenage years.
I am not saying social media is all good nor am I willing to accept it is all bad. In the world we now live in it simply “IS”. What we therefore have to be mindful of is considering the positives and negatives and doing our best to maximise the positive opportunities while reducing as much as is reasonably possible the negatives.


We have all read the various media reports in relation to concerns about children’s screen time, use of social media and also how technology can be distracting and negatively impact the ability for children to focus and concentrate. I have never really signed up to these concerns, although I have always accepted that at extreme levels of screen time and use negative consequences are likely, that however can be said for most things in life, that an over indulgence will have negative results whether it is over eating, over exercising, over dieting or over use of technology.
A recent visit to a school however casts this whole subject into another light and highlighted a potential benefit I hadn’t really considered. I was talking with students about the apps they use in school and the group of boys I was talking to where confidently and excitedly describing various apps which they used in different subjects. It was then that one student turned his iPad so I could see it and pronounced that he used HeadSpace. He apparently found he got stressed or distracted at times and that the HeadSpace app on his iPad allowed him to take time out and refocus. Here we had a student using technology to help with focus and distraction.
The issue of mobile phones in schools is once again raging with various schools deciding to ban mobile phones. On social media teachers and school leaders are split. Some occupy the ban all mobiles camp citing mobile phones as a distraction and also concerns around student mental health, addition and screen time in relation to overuse of social media. Others support the use of mobile phones in classrooms as it provides teachers with an additional tool which can be used to engage students in their learning opening up new opportunities and learning experiences not available without mobile phones. It also helps in preparing students for the real world where they will invariably need to manage their own phone use.
A couple of weeks ago I installed an app called Checky on both my Android tablet and my Android phone. The reason for installing the app was to try to get a handle on how often I checked my devices during the day. I had a sense that I was possibly checking my devices too often and that as a result I was less focused than I could be, however I was also conscious of the fact that this might be simply an incorrect perception without grounding in reality. The only way to determine whether my sense of over checking my devices was true was to gather some quantitative data and this is where Checky comes in. The app is simple – It just logs the number of times you access your device, reporting this daily.
I have noticed a self-perception over the last week or so that I have tended towards becoming distracted by my need to check my various devices for messages, tweets, updates, etc. Now it may be that my perception of the issue is tainted. Due to a busy workload at the moment I have taken to keeping lists of tasks to be undertaken and, as is the way, as soon as I score one task off, I add three more on. This means that my perception of progress may be that I am not making any headway which may lead me to under appreciate what I have achieved. This under appreciation may be making me feel that I am wasting time when I am checking my devices, thus leading to over accounting for the amount of time I am using up in this checking.
Yesterday afternoon while sat at home I suddenly started to experience internet issues, with my routers connection being intermittently lost. I immediately carried out the usual checks to see if I could identify the issue however nothing on the internal network at home seemed to be amiss. As such it was time to call my network provider to ask them to look into the situation.
I have been thinking a little bit further with regards societies addiction to our mobile devices and in particular mobile phones, a subject I only recently posted on (read my earlier post